So for some context I recently realized i'm LGBTQ+ more specifically Aromantic ( if you don't know what it means being Aromantic means you don't experience romantic attraction and have a lack of interest if forming romantic relationships) I never was really interested in dating or forming anything more then a platonic relationship and I finally realized it when I looked it up and now Im at the point now where i'm comfortable telling people
So I went and saw my doctor a few weeks ago to get something checked out afterword he referred me to a surgeon long story short I have an inguinal hernia and going to need surgery to fix it